Learning Spirit

I find it perplexing that many of the adults in our life do not seem to have a "learning spirit." This is my new word, borrowed from a TV program that I was watching, but I feel it accurately describes the art of being willing to learn. I understand that many (if not most) adults are consumed, quite literally, by work and family~leaving them little time to take classes and search out new knowledge. With that taken into account, learning is always a choice.

A few months back I sent around an email for a 4 part series regarding toddler behaviors. I literally sent the info to at least 15-20 families. Not one took a bite. I get that toddler behavior classes aren't every one's cup of tea. I would much rather be sitting on the couch, blogging, or keeping up with housework. The difference is that I think these classes are essential. Yes, I knew most of what was taught...but Jon didn't and that made all the difference. I take parenting very seriously, like a skill, and I am open to learning.

This week I was talking to a friend about taking some love and logic parenting classes with us. She laughed me off and dismissed the idea. I felt dismayed by her response and wished she was more open to the idea of learning. Is it fear, cost, time? Why are those overridden by potential knowledge?

A learning spirit doesn't have to take the form of classes on parenting. It includes all types of growth. Jon and I once took a rock climbing class because we knew nothing about it. We are in the process of seeking out a spiritual connection~which is causing us some growing pains and adjustments. Our new church is "different" and thus, requires more patience and open mindedness on our part. I think this is fantastic and Jon thinks it is difficult. We are learning. I am taking up knitting and teaching myself about bread baking.

The attitudes of adults regarding learning stumps me at times. I wonder if it is inherent, or the interest of learning has been raised out of them. Is this due to their familial attitudes or to negative schooling experiences? It is complex and sad in the same breath.

I was raised with a learning spirit and thus find an easier time with change and difference. I hope to instill this philosophy in my own children. In the meantime, we are signing up for the second round of parenting classes and insuring that our kids will get our best attempts at parenting and learning the art of being willing to learn.